How do I handle a breakup?

I’m a little confused on how to overcome a breakup? All the guys say grow some nuts, man up, etc. (Basically forget her and move on). Others say to reflect over the relationship and take time to grieve the loss.

I’m still hurting, I just don’t know what to do from here.


  1. Melly says:

    Keep yourself busy. Hang out with the people who love you (your family, friends, pets, etc.)
    Have fun, party, do whatever you can to get your mind off of the breakup.

    Be happy that your ex left because that gives you time to find the right person for you.

    An ex is an ex for a reason. Also if they dumped you or you dumped them it’s because there was a problem that ended the relationship. If you go back to your ex the same problems will happen again.

    It also takes time to move on from a ex

  2. Charmer says:

    I’m sorry. I’ve been going through this for about 2-3 weeks now and it isn’t easy forgetting two years like that. The first week I must admit, I cried all day long. Crying is natural and if you don’t cry then you aren’t human-It’s human nature,boys can cry too.
    I would suggest not texting her..try stopping any type of communication because that won’t help at all.
    Also, try new things; Start going out to keep your mind off of it and DO NOT I repeat DO NOT get into another relationship to help this, it wont work. You will see that over time it hurts less and less. You can grieve but not forever. You have a life ahead of you and don’t spend it crying over 1 girl, there’s plenty of others and I bet she’s doing the same as Im telling you also. Only time and the effort to get over the situation will mend a broken heart. Life goes on and will not wait on u so enjoy it to the fullest! Good luck hun, hope I helped =)

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